Am I a Playa??????

Today at church my pastor announced that the "singles ministry" will be starting soon and asked all the single folk in the church to stand. So I stood and when I sat back down the lady that was sitting beside me asked me why I'm single........................now this lady DOES NOT know me at all but has been coming to my church for some time now... I told her the right one just hasn't come along yet. I don't why she felt so compelled to continue to grill me about why I was single. First she asked how old I was, then she asked if I was straight..(I'm answering these questions because I'm in such awe that she's asking them) and if I had a job and was educated. She then proceeded to tell me that I shouldn't be single and there must have been a problem and I was probably a pimp player(HER WORDS)... now I'm like WTF?????? so I shrug and open my bible and try to get into the service. I'm replaying her questions in my head and all the while I'm getting upset because I'm feeling like this stranger just told me "I was a problem" so after benediction I told her that I was somewhat offended at her line of questioning because it made me feel that she was telling me that something was wrong with me............this joker laughed.. and then said that wasn't her intention at all and she was just wondering why a handsome young man such as myself was single. After the compliment I let my anger subside....lol.....and I said that I appreciate it and that there just aren't that many women that are of the caliber in which I like around this area. She said she agreed and didn't mean any harm...

But as I drove home I replayed that convo in my head and it made me wonder does being 29 and single(unmarried) makes "something wrong with me".?????? I came to the conclusion..........HELL NO.....then this song came on the Ipod and I had to laugh